I've never had oral sex. Can anyone tell me what semen is going to taste like?
I don't want to purchase "sex toys". I won't. But can I still put together a fun box for us to use when we're making love?
I'm seriously attracted to a gal at my gym, but someone here shared with me that she was raped a year or so ago. Am I nuts for still thinking about asking her out? What if I trigger something in her one way or the other?
A friend shaves his wife's pubic area for her and she loves it. He says it heightens sensual sensitivity. Can I ask my wife to try that if she doesn't shave there?
My boss has announced he's going to undergo a sex change. I don't know what all is involved with that, but I want to be able to let him talk about how he's doing, not just have to ask a bunch of technical questions. Is there a simple explanation about the medical end of it? And are there any boundaries I should respect in as far as things I shouldn't ask about?
My son was born with a congenital birth defect that's required years of on going surgeries involving his private area. Now as a teen, he's had so many people looking at him and handling him, he's told me he couldn't have an erection if his life depended on it. How can I help him?
Do you know with certainty, the first, second & third place your partner wants to be touched as you begin to make love & how long they want you to linger there?
I admit, I have a real dependency on pornography. I have people I'm trying to be accountable to. I WANT to step away from it. God knows for a fact I've prayed for it to just stop. Its still an on-going struggle. Smokers have "the patch", what's the patch for THIS?
My GRANDMOTHER has gotten an STD from someone at her retirement center! The staff says she's been fooling around with multiple other residents there. She doesn't have advanced dementia, but she can't be thinking straight! What do I do?
There's several sites supporting Vets as they come home, and they're talking about sex issues, or lack of sex issues. But how about actual details on how I'm supposed to make love when there are metal hooks at the end of my new arms?
I live in the spot light. Am as rich as everyone assumes, and yes, I live a lifestyle that reflects that. Gossip and tabloids are fun for the rest of you all, but unless you get what its like being approached non stop by both gals AND guys wanting to turn me on, then shut the hell up will you once it surfaces that I struggle with that! You may see me as shallow and insensitive, but I'm in a pretty dark place right now, whether its by my own doing or not. Talking about it like you know what's true or not, and paying money to encourage tabloids to hound us while we're working through all this, makes insensitivity a bit of a two way street now doesn't it?
I've always held the conviction that anal sex is flat out wrong. Period. But I recently had my first prostrate exam and I've been getting stimulated by the memory ever since. I can't talk to anyone about it, so what do I do from here?
Our child's placed in Special Ed. I read Sex Traffickers are hiring teens to score low so they can be in Special Ed. to get close to vulnerable kids. Really?
I found some search engine history on our computer focused on having sex with animals. I don't even know who was looking it up. I'm tripping out now. What do I do?
My wife passed away suddenly. I haven't had to live without sex, or have sex with "myself" in years. It almost isn't worth it, as I end up feeling lonelier if that's even possible. No one asks how I'm doing in that department obviously. But I'm struggling. Any advice?
I have a medical condition that leaves me with varying levels of being incontinent. How the heck do I ask someone to ever want to be intimate with me?
My older brother has fallen in love with a gal from the local strip bar. It's gotten my wife extremely nervous now every time he brings her to a family gathering, and this woman senses that. How do I reassure both of them that we can all be okay?
How do you handle oral sex during a women's menstrual cycle when one partner feels differently about it than the other?
Since hearing that my wife had an affair, my son now seems to think he's welcome to sleep with anyone and everyone. We don't know how to talk to him out of it.
I don't seem capable of resisting sexual advances or propositions when offered. Is there any realistic strategy to stop my habit?
I thought that the guys were supposed to be the one with the higher sex drive, but not in my marriage. Its causing my husband to really shut down and making me feel really awkward. Do I need some kind of hormone help?
Can you suggest some positions that work well for couples who have weight issues?
The "How Gay Are You?" test. REALLY? They want to "rate" just "how gay" someone is? Can someone explain this to me?
My finances are shot right now, how can I make it a cheap date without communicating the wrong message to her?
I was pimped for a couple years. I've done everything, with everyone. It's what was expected of me. I honestly can't say I have a handle on what, when or how much to ever talk about it now that I'm trying to date finally. Any advice?
I can't climax during penetration. I can masturbating, or when using a sex toy. Is it physical or mental?
My office friend referred to me as a "Quirky Alone", she said it was a new term that refers to singles who resist marriage or long term relationships. I guess that means I'm not alone in LIKING my singleness right? Or is is a slam?
I don't masturbate, I never have. Does that mean I'm not normal somehow?
She says she'd like more in the breast play department. Whats MORE?
I see a lot of just "initials" being used on my partner's cell to numbers I don't recognize, it scares me. I feel like I'd imply something I'm not ready to just yet if I asked what they mean. Is there a dictionary out there decoding any of this?
How do I talk to my husband about the fact that his medical prosthesis isn't half as comfortable to me as his simply using his hand or a dildo? I'm afraid it might communicate the wrong message, and I really don't want to do that, but it's pretty frustrating for me.
I just found out my teen found my stash of sex toys and has been using them when I'm not around. Its embarrassing and I'm more than a little grossed out. Do I hide the toys better or approach her about it? This is so outside my comfort zone.
What about "platonic" do people not believe is possible? We're NOT secretly messing around. What more do people need to hear to back off?
How do we get back to having sex AFTER an affair?
Pimps can target which kids are most vulnerable, why can't people who want to keep them out of sex traffic recognize them too and get to them first?
The standard condoms at the local stores seriously don't fit me, what can I do?
My daughter says she and her husband are looking at "alternatives" to traditional marriage. WHAT?
He's just too big...what do I do?
I just landed a job working in the adult film industry. Its decent enough money, and it's taken me months in this economy to find work period. I hear what you're saying here about porn and all. And no, I'm not telling people what I'm doing. But I need work. Is "My ZARZAND Team" gonna give me a job in order for me to quit this one? Honest to God, I DO feel torn, but eating and paying the bills has to matter to you people right?
Someone said that men who climax a certain number of times a week live longer than those who don't. Is there any truth to that?
My wife says some doctor on her talk show said if I lost a certain amount of weight, that my penis would grow larger, is that true?
My partner can't produce enough vaginal moisture even after my best efforts, am I not touching her somewhere that needs better stimulation?
I frankly get off being spanked. Always have. How do I ask my partner to join me in exploring that type of play?
What the heck is a TSE?
Its become an argument. Am I wrong to expect sex when I'm pregnant?
I LIKE porn, and I have zero plans on not using it. How does THAT sit with you LOL?
My husband has a curve in his penis that makes sex difficult. What can we do?
How can I make my husband more comfortable with my vibrator?
I'm on a site reading about what the STD check is going to entail. It sounds like some are more "detailed or more thorough" than others. How do you know what you really need to do?
Our ministry works with both males & females of ALL ages coming out of prostitution. How do we help them in regards to looking at new ways to physically & safely maintain their bodies and the differing sex drives they all are trying to balance?
Is there anything I can do to make my vagina tighter?
Our son found racy pictures of my wife & I. He's mad. We took his cell due to his sending sexual pics. What can we say beyond we're adults & you're not?
Are affairs more sexually charged than a marriage?
"Down Low"? "DL"? What the heck do those phrases mean?
How can I get my husband to choose me over masturbation?
Ok, I wore the condom, and yet I STILL walked away with an STD? How is that possible?
How can I stop thinking about someone else I was with during sex?
My daughter is getting married in a few weeks. Are there things she can do ahead of time to prep her body, so that her first sexual experience is more comfortable than mine was?
My kid has been told in Sex Ed at school that you can get pregnant when you have anal sex, that can't be true is it?
What can I say to her about her online "friendships?"
My husband has a small penis. What different positions can we try?
Since I didn't have anal sex, can I opt out of anything in that department STD check wise? It kinda F's with me thinking about anyone poking around my back door?
I get physically more stimulated when pain is involved with sharing sexual company. It doesn't matter if it's my pain or my partners. From nipple clamps, to dripping hot wax on genitals, to flogging or tying off a penis, it's all exciting to me. Anything new on this scene I can add to the game?
I'm HIV positive. Does it make sense to only try to connect up with someone on one of the STD/HIV dating websites, or is it pretty much unreasonable to even try the standard sites I see advertised everywhere?
Are there support groups for those of us "stressing out" as parents over our developmentally challenged kids sex & sexuality issues?
My husband was messing around with my left breast and all of a sudden some blood came out of the nipple. Just a couple drops, it's not leaking. He wasn't being rough. There's no pain. Should I be concerned?
I have a high profile job that I could loose if someone saw me at an STD clinic. And my normal doctor isn't exactly a comforting option for the same reason. Do I have any other choices?
I'm back from deployment. Have PTSD. Honestly I don't want any touching now, no holding hands, don't sit next to me, no hugs, nothing. I'm sleeping on the couch. Its safer anyway, every reaction is a gut reaction anymore, I'm messed up. Some days I'm ok still being a husband, others, not. And it's not her. Couples around us in our shoes are divorcing, having affairs, living on porn. I don't want that to be us. I can't promise I'll feel this way 5 minutes from now, but I'll ask it right now, if this ever lifts, someone tell me I can do something to start slowly working back towards being more intimate? I know she's asking for the same reassurance.
I'm a single dad, and I need to talk to my daughter about what her first menstrual cycle will look like. Its not like I'm an expert, and I frankly don't know my way around the women's hygiene isle as a whole, but I'm not totally ignorant. Do I ask a female in our world to take care of it, or can I feel ok, about bringing it up myself? I have a long list of questions here...